What I learned in my first year as a female startup CEO
- Apologies for my gender regarding sucky #2 and #3. - I’m not sure aggressive is a plus anywhere. Men (and women) refer to aggressive males by a number of equally critical words. My only suggestion is be genuine, smart, and strong while not kicking the people in your way and especially not those trying to help you. 
- "After all, it’s not like you can choose whether to be a female CEO vs male CEO. But you can choose your attitude toward it." - exactly , gender shouldn't be a deciding factor , well written